Hidupkan Hatimu

Hidupkan Hatimu, judul tulisan ini dan diperuntukan bagi mereka yang melampaui batas.

Penyimpangan dan ketergelinciran seseorang kepada jalan yang dibenci Allah sangat banyak penyebabnya. Jiwa yang kotor, kesuakaan mengikuti hawa nafsu , panjang angan2, dan banyak penganggur tanpa kegiatan positif  merupakan pemicu timbulnya penyimpangan, selain itu kebiasaan menggunakan sarana yang menggrogoti iman, kebiasaan terdidik atas dasar perasaan , bahkan teman yang buruk berperan besar mengantarkan kepada penyimpangan dan ketergelinciran
Keadaan lalai dan ketidak sadaran kita akan terjadinya penyimpangan ini, membuat iman merosot dan melemah. DOSA bukan lagi menjadi pertimbangan untuk berbuat sekehendak hati, manisnya IMAN tidak lagi dirasakan , nuansa KEHIDUPAN tidak lagi indah, berbagai problem pun datang silih berganti seiring terhalangnya mendapatkan  REZEKI yang halal, bahkan sebagian hati orang akan menjauh akibat perbuatan kita yang kurang berkenan.

Namun rahmat Allah teramat luas, dan kasih sayangNya meliputi segala sesuatu. Tiada kata terlambat untuk mendapatkan kembali hidayahnya, karena Allah senantiasa membentangkan jalan hidayah kepada kita semua…. Sekarang permasalahannya siapkah anda mendapatkan kembali hidayah itu ?????????

baca selengkapnya Hidupkan Hatimu

Entri ini ditulis di Hidupkan Hatimu dan ber-tag Hidupkan Hatimu pada 17 Juni 2009.

Passport to success

Passport to success

Apakah anda termasuk kelompok aktifitas mulai jam 09.00 sampai dengan 17.00 ??, apakah anda pernah memikirkan bagaimana membuat lembaran baru kehidupan anda??
Apakah anda tahu pembicaraan apa yang sedang populer, Gaya masa kini???

“Kalau anda jenuh dengan kegiatan rutin.., mengapa anda tidak berlibur saja???, seharusnya anda menambah keceriaan dalam hidup ini, karena anda tahu bahwa masa depan anda bukan hanya sebuah mimpi”

Lembaran baru kehidupan, Pembicaraan populer dan berlibur adalah  Passport to success

Entri ini ditulis di Pengembangan diri dan ber-tag Pengembangan Diri pada 17 Juni 2009.

Wise word

Wise word
Kata-kata mutiara  tentang Cinta

• Many can be done with money, but more can be done with love


• For the man, accepting is to give, for the woman accepting is to find


• Hate is often love that becomes mad


• Even they are sagacious, but they would became stupid when are loving


• Love will creap where water can not pass …

Kata-kata mutriara tentang apa saja ………………………………………….     

• “LIFE is a verb”
  … Buckminster Fuller


• “Teach us to care and not to care
  Teach us to sit still”
  …T.S. Eliot, from Ash Wednesday


•  “Life is very short
  And there’s no time for fighting and fussing my friends.”
  …The Beatles


•  At the center of non-violence stands the principle of love
  …. Martin Luther King, Jr.


•  “Never let the weeds get higher
  Than the garden”
  …Tom Waits


•  “My grandfather always said that living is like licking honey off a thorn.”�
  …Louis Adamic


•  “Have as your goal to do your best and to make a difference.
  We are in the world to make a difference,
  and everything we do changes the world.”


• “The greatest thing in the world is not so much where we are,
  but in what direction we are moving.”


• “Once the mind has been stretched by a new idea,
  it will never again return to its original size.”
  …Oliver Wendell Holmes


• “I do not know what your destiny will be, but one thing I
  know: the only ones among you who will be truly happy
  are those who will have sought and found how to serve.”
  ….Albert Schweitzer


• “The lot of the many is to have as a profession,
  for the earning of their living and the satisfaction
  of society’s claim on them, a more or less soulless labor
  in which they can give out little or nothing of their human qualities,
  because in that labor they have to be
  little better than human machines.
  ;Yet no one finds himself in the position of having no possible
  opportunity of giving himself to others as a human being.
  …No fate can prevent a man from giving to others this
  direct human service side by side with his lifework.
  If so much of such service remains unrealized,
  it is because the opportunities are missed.”
  …Albert Schweitzer


• “the world is not respectable: it is mortal,
  tormented, confused, deluded forever;
  but it is shot through with beauty,
  with love, with glints of courage and laughter;
  and in these, the Spirit blooms.”


• The young man who has not wept is a savage,
  and the old man who will not laugh is a fool.
  George Santayana


• The more I attempted to “be me” the more “me’s” I found there were.
  I now see that “being me” means acknowledging all that I feel at the moment,
  and then taking responsibility for my actions
  by consciously choosing which level of my feelings
  I am going to respond to.
  … Hugh Prather


• “The trick is what one emphasizes.
  We either make ourselves miserable or we make ourselves strong.
  The amount of work is the same.”


• “Was it something I will see in the future” I asked?
  There’s no future!” he exclaimed cuttingly.
  The future is only a way of talking.
  For a sorcerer there is only the here and now.”
  …Carlos Castaneda from “Tales Of Power”


• “The worst prison would be a closed heart”.
  …Pope John Paul II


• In the book of life, the answers aren’t in the back.
  …Charlie Brown


• I think each one of us has a non-shirkable obligation
  to figure out the world on our own as best we can.
  The way we behave as a result of that investigation
  is our real and practiced Religion.


• “The key to the future is service.
  Part of what made Kennedy great was the idea of the Peace Corps.
  Part of Clinton’s votes came from people who liked
  the idea of repaying student loans with service.
  As the world becomes more crowded,
  each way of making money becomes precious and money is charged
  for things that used to be given for free or for love.
  Service becomes a revolutionary act.”
  …Stephen Gaskin


• “There’s no reason to be the richest man in the cemetery.
  You can’t do any business from there.”
  …Colonel Sanders


• Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high;
  Where knowledge is free;
  Where the world has not been broken up into
  fragments by narrow domestic walls;
  Where words come out from the depth of truth;
  Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection:
  Where the clear stream of reason has not lost
  its way into the dreary desert sand of dead habit;
  Where the mind is lead forward by thee into ever-widening thought and action–
  Into that heaven of freedom, my Father, let my country awake.|
  ….Rabindranath Tagore, Nobel Prize winner,Literature,1913


• “God admires us not for what we do but for how much love we put into what we do.
  Together let us build a chain of love around the world.”


• “In the developed countries there is a poverty of intimacy,
  a poverty of spirit, of loneliness, of lack of love.
  There is no greater sickness in the world today than that one.”


• “We cannot all do great things.But we can do small things with great love.”
  ….Mother Teresa


• “My message is the practice of compassion, love, and kindness.
  Compassion can be put into practice if one recognizes the fact
  that every human being is a member of humanity and
  the human family regardless of differences in religion, culture, color, and creed.
  Deep down there is no difference.”


• “We should try never to let our happy frame of mind be disturbed.
  Whether we are suffering at present or have suffered in the past,
  there is no reason to be unhappy. If we can remedy it, why be unhappy?
  And if we cannot, what use is there in being depressed about it?
  That just adds more unhappiness and does no good at all.”


• “By developing a sense of respect for others and a concern for their welfare,
  we reduce our own selfishness, which is the source of all problems,
  and enhance our sense of kindness which is a natural source of goodness.”


• “This is my simple religion.
  There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy.
  Our own brain, our own heart is our temple;
  the philosophy is kindness.”


• …His holiness the 14th Dalai Lama, Tenzin Gyatso
  The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living


• The idea is that you have to WIN and be nonviolent
  You’ve got to be nonviolent – and you’ve got to win with nonviolence. ”
  … Cesar Chavez


• “Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?”
  “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the Cat.
  “I don’t much care where — ” said Alice.
  “Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,” said the Cat.
  ” — so long as I get somewhere,” Alice added as an explanation.
  “Oh, you’re sure to do that,” said the Cat, “if you only walk long enough.”
  …Alice in Wonderland


• “Intellectuals try not to drown, while the whole purpose of love is drowning.”
  …Rumi


• As selfishness and complaint pervert cloud the mind,
  so love with its joy clears and sharpens the vision.
  …Helen Keller, My Religion, 1927.


• “Love is the answer, and you know that for sure.”
  …John Lennon


• “I am he as you are he as you are me and we are all together!”
  …Beatles, “I Am The Walrus”


• “We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools.
  Everybody can be great…because anybody can serve.
  You don’t have to have a college degree to serve.
  You don’t have to make your subject and verb agree to serve.
  You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love”.
  …Martin L. King, Jr.


• The more I study the world,The more I am convinced of the
  inability of Brute force to create anything durable.
  …Napoleon Bonaparte


• “Many people think they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices”
  … William James


• “Breathe when you breathe,
  Walk where you walk.
  talk when you talk,
  cry when you cry,
  die when you die,
  let go when you let go…”
  …Allen Ginsberg


• “We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow-men;
  along those fibers, as sympathetic threads, our actions run as causes,
  and they come back to us as effects.”
  … Herman Melville


• “The recognition of the life of every man as sacred is the first
  and only basis of all ethics.
  War is so unjust and ugly that all who wage it must try
  to stifle the voice of conscience within themselves.”
  …Leo Tolstoy,
  The Kingdom of God Is Within You


• “A human being is part of the whole, called by us the ‘universe’,
  a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself,
  his thoughts and feelings, as something separate from the rest
  -a kind of optical delusion of consciousness.
  This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to
  our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us.
  Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening
  our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures
  and the whole of nature in its beauty.”


• “It has become appallingly obvious that our technology has exceeded our humanity.”


• “With all my heart I believe the present system of sovereign nations
  can lead only to war, barbarism, inhumanity, and
  only through world law can we assure progress toward civilization.”


• ” The ideals that lighted my way, and time after time have given me new courage
  to face life cheerfully have been Kindness, Beauty and Truth.”
  …Albert Einstein (1879-1955)


• “Life is not the result of the evolution of matter.
  Life is of another kind.
  Matter alone can’t produce life. I look to nature
  and to the Spirit who is living in everything.”
  …Marc Deneyer Photographic Artist


• “What is beautiful is a joy for all seasons and a possession for all eternity.”
  …Oscar Wilde


• “To be completely honest with oneself is the very best effort a human being can make.”
  …Sigmund Freud


• “I have learnt through bitter experience
  the one supreme lesson to conserve my anger,
  and as heat conserved is transmuted into energy,
  even so our anger controlled can be transmuted into a
  power which can move the world.”


• “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.”


• “An Eye for an Eye makes the whole world blind.”
  …Mahatma Gandhi


• In this internal storm and outward tide
  We hear a promise, hard to understand:
  From the compulsion that all creatures binds,
  Who overcomes himself, his freedom finds.


• Nothing is more revolting than the majority;
  for it consists of few vigorous predecessors,
  of knaves who accommodate themselves,
  of weak people who assimilate themselves,
  and the mass that toddles after them
  without knowing the least what it wants.
  …Goethe


• Self-observation brings man to the realization of the necessity
  of self-change. And in observing himself a man notices that self-observation
  itself brings about certain changes in his inner processes. He begins to understand that
  self-observation is an instrument of self-change, a means of awakening.
  … George Gurdjieff


• “To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing it’s best,
  night and day, to make you everybody else
  means to fight the hardest battle any human being can fight;
  and never stop fighting.”
  …ee cummings


• “You are what your deep driving desire is.
  As your desire is, so is your will.
  As your will is,so is your deed. As your deed is,
  so is your destiny. ”
  …Brihadaranyaka Upanishad


• “Eliminate the impossible and whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth.”
  …Sherlock Holmes


• “;The Internet is a vibration of where we’re going now. Welcome to the next millennium
  – you’ve got to get on it or you’re going to be like the dinosaur.”
  …Carlos Santana


• “Only the vigilant can maintain their liberties, and only those who are
  constantly and intelligently on the spot can hope to govern
  themselves effectively by democratic procedures. A society,
  most of whose members spend a great part of their time, not on the spot,
  not here and now and in the calculable future, but somewhere else,
  in the irrelevant other worlds of sport and soap opera,
  of mythology and metaphysical fantasy, will find it hard to resist
  the encroachments of those who would manipulate and control it.”
  …Aldous Huxley,
  Brave New World


• “The courage of a life is often a less dramatic spectacle
  than the courage of a final moment;
  but it is no less a magnificent mixture of triumph and tragedy.
  A man does what he must–in spite of personal consequences,
  in spite of obstacles and dangers and pressures
  –and that is the basis of all human morality.”


• Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable.
  …John F. Kennedy


• “Through his power to survey his life, man can transcend the immediate events
  which determine him. Whether he has tuberculosis or is a slave like the
  Roman philosopher Epictetus or a prisoner condemned to death,
  he can still in his freedom choose how he will relate to these facts.
  And how he relates to a merciless realistic fact like death
  can be more important for him than the fact of death itself. ”
  …Rollo May


• “You cannot separate the just from the unjust and the good from the wicked;
  For they stand together before the face of the sun even as
  the black thread and the white are woven together.
  And when the black thread breaks, the weaver shall look into the whole cloth,
  and he shall examine the loom also.”
  …Kahlil Gibran,The Prophet


• “There can be no justice when laws are absolute.
  Life itself is an exercise in exceptions.”
  …Jean-Luc Picard


• For one human being to love another:
  that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks;
  the ultimate, the last test and proof,
  the work for which all other work is but preparation.
  …Rainer Maria Rilke

others wise word

Entri ini ditulis di Wise words pada 17 Juni 2009.

The Power of Positive Feeling

The Power of Positive Feeling, cerita dalam kuantum ikhlas : Seorang anak bertanya kepada Ayahnya..” dari manakah asalnya Langit ,Bumi dan seluruh isinya???”…kata  sang Ayah..”lihat lah pohon yang tinggi menjulang disana..kemudian kita kebawah pohon tersebut”..sesampai dibawah pohon sang ayah mengambil salah satu buah  kering yang jatuh dari pohon tersebut lalu dibelahnya sampai ke biji lalu menyerahkan kepada anaknya sambil berkata..”coba lihat apa isi dari biji pohon ini..”..sang anak membelah biji kering tersebut..ternya isinya kosong..hampa…tidak berisi sesuatu, kemudian sang ayah menjelaskan..”bahwa Langit, Bumi dan segala isinya bermula dari tidak ada, kosong, hampa

Semua yang tampak berasal dari sesuatu yang tidak tampak, semua yang terlihat bermula dari sesuatu yang tidak terlihat.

Ke sukses an hidup yang ingin kita capai “Mobil mewah, rumah besar. jabatan tinggi, dll sesuatu yang tampak, sesuatu yang terlihat. Lalu dari manakah itu semua???

referensi : Kuantum ikhlas ….. kunci sukses meraih bahagia

Entri ini ditulis di Pengembangan diri dan ber-tag Pengembangan Diri pada 24 Juni 2009.

You can change your life

You can change your life, Kita hanya mendapat satu kali kesempatan hidup. Jika hidup kita kekurangan makna, kebahagian dan tujuan , kita tidak perlu menyianyiakannya dengan apatisme, ketidak tertarikan, sikap mengasihani dirisendiri dan keputus asaan. Jangan membiarkan opini orang lain, kebiasaan kita, keraguan diri, citra diri yang buruk , ketidak beruntungan dan pilihan kita yang tidak bijak menjaauhkan kita dari hidup yang kaya makna dan menarik.. Kita berhak untuk berubah…Kita berhak untuk bahagia

Entri ini ditulis di Pengembangan diri dan ber-tag Pengembangan Diri pada 24 Juni 2009.

Kekuatan Imajinasi

Kekuatan Imajinasi (the power of imagination), begitu dahzatnya kekuatan imajinasi yang dapat digunakan sebagai pengobatan dan membunuh seseorang….
1. Ada orang masuk kedalam mobil pendingin, tiba2 pintu terkunci, ketika pintu dibuka orang itu sudah mati dengan semua gejala kedinginan, bongkah2 es menempel ditubuhnya, yang mengherankan temperatur dimobil itu samasekali tidak dingin karena sudah lama mesin pendinginnya dimatikan.
Jadi mengapa ia mati??,…Ia percaya bahwa ia masuk kedalam mobil pendingin dan ia percaya akan mati kedinginan. Pikirannya mempengaruhi tubuhnya sehingga terjadi hipotermia, ia mati karena pikirannya
2. Beberapa mahasiswa menculik asisten dosen yang galak, mereka membawa asisten tersebut ke hutan dengan tutup mata kain hitam. ketika penutup matanya dibuka ia melihat pisau guillotin besar mengarah kelehernya..seorang mahasiswa membacakan kesalahannya yang tak terampunkan / hukuman pancung..kemudian matanya ditutup kembali. Selembar kain disabetkan kearah tengkuknya kemudian dialirkan air yang hangat..selanjutnya ternya asisten dosen itu sudah mati…Sipakah yang membunuh Assisten dosen tersebut..Pikirannya sendiri.
Itulah kekuatan imajinasi ” yang merupakan salah-satu jembatan yang menghubungkan jiwa dengan tubuh. Tubuh memberikan reaksi terhadap imajinasi..Tubuh tdk membedakan apakah imajinasi itu realistik atau tidak.
Imajinasi digunakan untuk mengingat dan menciptakan kembali mas lalu, mengembangkan wawasan mendalam tentang masa kini, mempengaruhi kesehatan fisik, mendorong kreatifitas dan inspirasi dan mengantisipasi kemungkinan dimasa depan.

referensi : Idol MySpace Blog – Kekuatan Imajinasi

Entri ini ditulis di Pengembangan diri dan ber-tag Pengembangan Diri pada 24 Juni 2009.

Cinta kasih seorang Ibu

Cinta kasih seorang Ibu (The Great Power Of Mother)

Arti hidup ini diajarkan oleh Ibunda
Mengajariku menjadi manusia
Memberi keteladanan tentang ketegaran hidup
Mengingatkan tentang pentingnya doa
dan selalu mendoakan keselamatan dan kebahagian anak anaknya
Sejuk gemercik air di padang gersang
Basah terasa aliri pipi yang kering
Hangat sentuhannya damai terasa

Kasih sayangnya sehangat mentari pagi
Balaian tangannya selembut angin sutra
Senyum manisnya hiburkan hati nan duka
Pandang matanya tajamkan hatinan suci

Dia..adalah wanita paling berjasa
Sejak kita lahir kedunia dan melangkah ke alam fana

Tiada tandingan budinya dalam kehidupan kita
Yang melahirkan kita, menyusui dan membesarkan kita
Pertaruhkan jiwa raga membela kita semua

Dialah..Ibunda yang selalu mendoakan kita
Dalam keadaan lapang, suka maupun duka

Tutur katanya adalah harapan dan doa
Nasihat yang berguna sepanjang masa
Keredhaannya adalah ridha Ilahi
Kemurkaannya adalah murka Ilahi

[Referensi :  The Great Power of Mother  pada clipart80.wordpress]

Entri ini ditulis di Pengembangan diri dan ber-tag Pengembangan Diri pada 24 Juni 2009.